The 11 Best Accessible Sex Toys For Disabled Folks

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Everyone deserves sexual pleasure. But, unfortunately, not every sex toy is made for every body.

That’s why we did a deep dive into sex toys and accessories that are perfect for a variety of bodies and abilities. There are a ton of accessible options out there for people with mobility issues, dexterity issues, erectile dysfunction, and more.

Obviously, every disabled body is different, so not every toy or accessory on the list will be right for everyone. But we tried to include a variety of sex toys to address some of the more common issues that disabled folks face in their intimate lives. We’ve also included toys that can be used both solo and with a partner.

Check out our picks below.

1. The WaterSlyde Aquatic Stimulator


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Looking for a hands-free option? The WaterSlyde might be the perfect choice for you. The WaterSlyde ties onto the faucet of the bathtub to focus water pressure right where you need it.

Depending on your disability, you may need assistance tying the toy onto the faucet and running the bath. But once it’s attached, you should be good to go.

The WaterSlyde comes in pink, blue, and purple depending on your preference. Check out the WaterSlyde here.

2. Lovehoney Nipple Suckers


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Not everyone does or can get off via their genitals. For those looking for a different option, try Lovehoney’s Nipple Suckers. It’s entirely possible to enjoy a full orgasm through nipple play alone and these are perfect for hands-free enjoyment.

The Nipple Suckers attach using light suction and once on, all you have to do is lie back and enjoy. Great for solo or partner play. Check out the Lovehoney Nipple Suckers here.

3. Ruby Glow Blush


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The Ruby Glow Blush is one of the more versatile sex toys on the market these days!

The toy consists of three parts — a vibrator, a base, and a remote control.

If you have difficulty holding a vibrator, the vibrator can be placed in the base and ridden cowgirl-style hands-free, providing stimulation to the clitoris, perineum, and beyond.

If you struggle with core strength and can’t ride the toy upright, the vibrator detaches from the base so you can lie down and use it anywhere on your body that turns you on.

On top of that, the toy comes with a remote so you or your partner can control the vibrator from afar. Check out the Ruby Glow Blush here.

4. The Bonbon Sex Toy Mount by Liberator


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The Bonbon Sex Toy Mount is the perfect accessory for those who need to go hands-free. The pillow includes a small slot for a vibrator, dildo, or other sex toy and holds it in place so you can straddle and ride to your heart’s delight.

Check out the Bonbon Sex Toy Mount here.

5. Liberator Sex Wedges


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Liberator offers a wide array of sex ramps and wedges, as well as combo sets, that are perfect for people who have trouble getting and/or staying in certain positions. Each set can be rearranged to fit your specific needs.

Their full line includes ramps, wedges, pillows, and lifts of various heights and shapes. Check out the Liberator line here.

6. The We-Vibe Moxie Panty Vibrator


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Another hands-free option, the We-Vibe Moxie Panty Vibrator fits nicely in your underwear and stays put via magnetic clips while you operate it using a remote control.

While you might need assistance getting things set up, once things are in place, you can relax and enjoy the show. Check out the We-Vibe Moxie Panty Vibrator here.

7. The Doggy Rider Strap

The Doggy Rider strap was specifically made for those with disabilities like chronic back pain, fatigue, musculoskeletal injuries, and muscular dystrophy.

Essentially, the Doggy Strap is for anyone who needs a little assistance getting in position and/or staying there. With the Doggy Rider Strap, all you need to do is wrap the strap around the hips of you and your partner and get on all fours.

If you need extra assistance, consider pairing it with a wedge or pillow. Check out the Doggy Rider Strap here.

8. Starsi External Vibrator

Who says you only have to use a vibrator on your genitals? The Starsi External Vibrator is made to use literally anywhere on your body that feels good.

The front of the Starsi is full of texture that will be sure to give you pleasure and the back is curved to make it easy to hold. Or, you can merely place it on your body and go hands-free.

Bonus: the Starsi External Vibrator was made with all genders in mind and is particularly perfect for transfemmes with genital dysphoria. The toy’s creator is queer and disabled themself, so they know exactly what folks like them need and want.

Check out the Starsi External Vibrator here.

9. The Joystick Rechargeable Wand

The Joystick Rechargeable Wand is extra-long (14″) and crazy bendable so you can customize its shape to suit your needs. It’s so long and versatile that you can actually use it as a dildo as well!

The Joystick is also waterproof and rechargeable so you can use it for up to an hour. Check out the Joystick Rechargeable Wand here.

10. Salto Slingback

Have trouble getting and/or keeping your legs up and open? The Salto Slingback can help. These plush, padded cuffs allow your partner to tie up your legs in the perfect position without you having to do any work.

The Slingback is ideal for those who enjoy vaginal or anal penetration. Check out the Salto Slingback here.

11. Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo Essential

A lot of the toys on the list are intended for users with a vagina, but the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo is made exclusively for those with a penis.

The vibrating sleeve fits comfortably on your penis. It can be used with or without an erection to give you pleasure so it’s great for anyone who has erectile dysfunction. Check out the Hot Octopuss Solo Essential here.


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Lena Finkel is the Editor and Founder of Femestella. Prior to starting Femestella, she worked at People, InStyle, Tiger Beat, and Sesame Workshop (aka Sesame Street). She loves all things Real Housewives and Vanderpump Rules. When she's not busy binge-watching TV, you can find her hanging out with her tuxedo cat Tom.