Unleashing Your Passion: How To Spice Up Your Relationship

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We all know how possible it is for relationships to slowly lose their passion and meaning over time. It’s a struggle that most couples face and it can either be caused by one or both partners. Every relationship requires love, time, effort, and patience for it to bloom to its fullest potential.

However, there might be situations where one begins to notice the flame of love slowly die out in their relationship or you might just be looking to try out new ways to spice up your relationship. Whatever the case may be, it’s time to step it up and take note of some key points in this guide.

The Element Of Surprise

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Nobody is too big or too caught up to receive gifts or surprises! You and your partner should take time out to offer gifts and pleasant surprises to each other, as often as you can. This gives you both something to look forward to and sparks excitement.

Remember that everyone loves a good gesture and gift-giving is a great way of telling your partner that you’re conscious of them and their happiness.

Communication Is Powerful

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Recall the phrase “Talk Less, Listen More”, well, you might want to consider it and have meaningful conversations with your loved one as often as possible. The idea behind communication is to express yourself as much as you can. This makes it easier to identify flaws, faults, and mistakes that could cause a major shift in your relationship.

Moreover, the more open you are to your partner, the easier it becomes to settle arguments quickly, reconcile, and make up.

Physical Touch Is Key

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The consciousness of your partner can be improved by constantly enabling physical touch. This could include holding hands when walking together, cuddling, touching or rubbing each other’s hair, sharing a meal, hugging, etc. These little gestures can go a long way and make your partner miss you when you’re not around.

The context of physical touch can also be applied in the bedroom. Don’t be scared to share your wants, needs, and ideas on how to make intimacy with your partner more enjoyable. A recent study by Just Dildos showed that couples who put aside time to be intimate at least twice a week were 60% less likely to get divorced than couples who didn’t plan specific times.

Go Out Together

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The concept of going out together is a very compelling and interesting way of spicing up your relationship. You can achieve this by going on date nights, on evening walks, to parks, beaches, sightseeing, etc. So it’s advisable to work around your busy schedule and find time to relax and have a lovely time with your partner.

Another way to maximize this option is to try new things and explore new places together. It’ll help to greatly strengthen the bond you both share.

Be Approachable

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An approachable partner is a lovable partner. You should be approachable and work on personality traits to make it easier for your partner to reach out to you. One of the fastest ways to make your spouse/partner lose interest in you is when you become too difficult and unapproachable.

A relationship requires the effort of both parties, so try to be patient, understanding, attentive, loving, and supportive. Moreso, speak your partner’s love language, if it’s gift-giving, attention, or communication, put in the effort and try to make it work.

Dress To Impress

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As we grow older, our physical attributes which make us attractive tend to diminish. A great way to keep that in check and still command your partner’s attention is by looking your best. This not only boosts your self-confidence as an individual, but it makes your partner feel good about you.

Alongside looking your best, it’s important to maintain good personal hygiene as well, as they all contribute to improving your appeal.


As earlier stated, no relationship is a bed of roses. Every relationship needs constant effort and patience to work. No one else knows your partner better than you, which is why communication at all times is greatly encouraged. The more communication, love, and effort you put in, the better it gets.