'You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah': Where to Get All the Outfits

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As if being 13 wasn’t complicated enough! Throw in a Bat Mitzvah, middle school politics, and cute boys and you have a Shakespearean drama.

And so it goes in Netflix’s latest teen film You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah which follows BFFs Stacy and Lydia as they attempt to plan the biggest event of their young lives.

In addition to the drama, the movie is filled with tons of Y2K fashion (bring on the lettuce-trim crop tops!).

If you love the outfits in You Are So Not Invited to My Bat Mitzvah, check out where to get them below.

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Where to Get Stacy Friedman’s Outfits

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Stacy Friedman wearing a Zara Lime Green Ditsy Floral Satin Mini Dress.

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Stacy Friedman wearing an H&M Green Exposed Seam Short Sleeve Crop Top.

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Stacy Friedman wearing a Y2K Blue Abstract Print Ribbed Knit Sleeveless Sweater Top.

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Stacy Friedman wearing an H&M Orange Melange Exposed Seam Short Sleeve Crop Top.

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Stacy Friedman wearing an H&M Blue Oversized Printed T-Shirt, Ban.Do Orange Basketweave Lounge Pants, and Converse Chuck Taylor All Star White Low Top Sneakers.

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Stacy Friedman wearing an Ann Taylor Navy Blue Square Neck Short Sleeve Sheath Dress.

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Stacy Friedman wearing a Sophisticate Orange Off-the-Shoulder Button Up Bow-Adorned Dress.

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Stacy Friedman wearing a Reformation Blue Floral Puff Sleeve Mini Dress (color sold out).

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Stacy Friedman wearing a Champion Light Yellow Crewneck Sweatshirt, Teddy Fresh White Embroidered Sweatpants, and Converse Chuck Taylor All Star White Low Top Sneakers.

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Stacy Friedman wearing a Target Wild Fable Pink Oversized Miami Printed T-Shirt.

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Stacy Friedman carrying a FjallRaven Pink Backpack.

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Stacy Friedman wearing The Paranoyds Yellow Snail Band T-Shirt.

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Stacy Friedman wearing Ban.Do Orange Basketweave Lounge Pants.

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Stacy Friedman wearing a Princess Polly Green Ditsy Floral Mini Dress.

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Stacy Friedman wearing a Princess Polly Blue Floral Ruched Mini Dress (color sold out).

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Stacy Friedman wearing an Urban Outfitters Purple Space Out T-Shirt Dress.

Where to Get Lydia Rodriguez Katz’s Outfits

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a W Concept Green/White Checkerboard Headband, Reformation White Butterfly Embroidered Jeans, and Vans Pastel High Top Sneakers.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a RHODE Black Floral Puff Sleeve Ruched Mini Dress.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Scotch & Soda Pink Chore Jacket, a Scotch & Soda Pink Denim Mini Skirt, and Converse Chuck Taylor All Star Black High Top Sneakers.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Reformation Turquoise Lace-Trim Button-Front Puff Sleeve Mini Dress.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing an & Other Stories Purple Metallic One Shoulder Puff Sleeve Mini Dress.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Reformation Red Gingham Button-Front Mini Dress (style sold out — similar below) and a Wecoe Red Embellished Headband.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Ban.Do Multicolor Stripe Cardigan.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Tory Burch Yellow Floral Pleated Skort.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing Sandro Daisy and Peace Sign Embroidered Denim Shorts (sold out — similar below).

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz carrying an Ardene Beige Leather Flap Backpack.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Maison Scotch & Soda Blue Smocked Tank Top and Madewell Beaded Daisy Hoop Earrings.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Ganni Pink Love Club Sweater.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Simons Blue Beaded Headband (sold out — similar below).

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Bec & Bridge Purple Metallic Strapless Mini Dress.

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Lydia Rodriguez Katz wearing a Sandro Pastel Stripe Short Sleeve Sweater.

Where to Get Kym Chang Cohen’s Outfits

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Kym Chang Cohen wearing a Blumarine Orange Satin Single Breasted Blazer.

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Kym Chang Cohen wearing Vince White Belted High Waisted Shorts and Dr. Martens x Lazy Oaf Black Smiley Face Oxfords.

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Kym Chang Cohen wearing a Teddy Fresh Purple Mixed Print Patchwork Zip-Up Hoodie Sweatshirt (get it in purple on Mercari or in pink on eBay below).

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Kym Chang Cohen wearing a KkCo Red/Pink Two-Tone Pleated Tennis Mini Skirt.

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Kym Chang Cohen wearing a Comme Des Garcons Play Light Yellow Zip Up Heart Hoodie Sweatshirt.

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Kym Chang Cohen wearing a Reformation Black Ribbed Knit Button-Front Top (sold out — similar below) and Maje Black Floral High Waisted Shorts.

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Kym Chang Cohen wearing a Topshop Blue Floral Ruched Camisole.

Where to Get Tara’s Outfits

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Tara wearing a Princess Polly Yellow Flower Print Sleeveless Knit Mini Dress.

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Tara wearing Cider Black/White Wavy Print Pants.

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Tara wearing a Susan Alexandra Floral Beaded Station Necklace.

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Tara wearing an AFRM Wavy Print Long Sleeve Mock Neck Bodycon Maxi Dress (print sold out).

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Tara wearing Target Wild Fable Two Tone Wide Leg Jeans.

Where to Get Nikki’s Outfits

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Nikki wearing Madewell Green Gingham Linen Shorts.

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Nikki wearing a Rita Row White Floral Print T-Shirt.

Where to Get Megan Levy’s Outfits

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Megan Levy wearing Cider Black/White Flower Print Color Block High Waisted Shorts.

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Megan Levy wearing Zara Orange Plaid Pants (sold out — get a similar pair below).

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Megan Levy wearing a Vans Blue Tartan Low Top Sneakers.

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Megan Levy wearing an Aritzia White/Blue Stripe T-Shirt (unavailable) and Reformation Black Earth Embroidered Jeans.

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Megan Levy wearing a Zara Blue Voluminous Top Bow Mini Dress and Dr. Martens White Oxfords.

Where to Get Anya’s Outfits

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Anya wearing a Ganni Cream Stripe Zip Up Track Jacket.

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Anya wearing an H&M Green Wavy Print Cropped T-Shirt.

Where to Get Ronnie Friedman’s Outfits

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Ronnie Friedman wearing an Aviator Nation Grey 5 Stripe Crewneck Sweatshirt (color sold out).

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Ronnie Friedman wearing a Princess Polly Black Mesh Sleeve Mini Dress.

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Ronnie Friedman wearing a Reformation Green Midi Dress.

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Ronnie Friedman using an Urban Sophistication Blue/White Puffy Heart iPhone Case.

Where to Get Bree Friedman’s Outfits

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Bree Friedman wearing a Sofie Schnoor Green Star Print Back Jacket and carrying a Clare V. Green Round Leather Crossbody Bag.

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Bree Friedman wearing a Gestuz Blue Pinstripe Single Breasted Blazer.

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Bree Friedman wearing a Maje Green V-Neck Smocked Midi Dress.

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Lena Finkel
Lena Finkel is the Editor and Founder of Femestella. Prior to starting Femestella, she worked at People, InStyle, Tiger Beat, and Sesame Workshop (aka Sesame Street). She loves all things Real Housewives and Vanderpump Rules. When she's not busy binge-watching TV, you can find her hanging out with her tuxedo cat Tom.